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Any man who has been out on a date thinks he is an expert on dating and many of them have written books advising others how to be a success in dating. Many of these books may contain useful information, but before you even think of starting on them, there are a few basic dating tips for men that can get you started in the right way. The first of the important dating tips for men is that each woman is different and while there may be some common characteristics, generalizing about women is a big mistake. All the “Women Are From Venus” theories are fine, but they are only guidelines, not a Bible to be followed blindly.

Women want to be treated as equals to men but at the same time, treating them with respect and a display of good manners will earn you the same kind of consideration in return. No successful date can ever be one sided – everything you both say, do, eat and look at must be enjoyed by both of you or why should either of you go out again. Show that what interests her also interests you –you and your date need to have things in common, but do not expect to have identical tastes; that will be like dating a mirror. And when things that interest her are new to you, admit your lack of knowledge and ask questions to learn – trying to pretend you know about things you don’t will blow up in your face.

Fighting traffic can be difficult but if you are late for a date, she will think that it is because she is not important to you and if that happens, you will stop being important to her. Bringing her flower is not a dated concept – women love them and it’s a great way to show that you think enough of her to make this extra effort. Humor is very important to most women so go out of your way to make her smile and laugh but if you don’t know her well, be careful of saying things that may offend her. Do not bore her with talk about your job – tell her what you do and leave it at that. If she asks you for more information do not take it as a sign of interest – she may just be trying to be polite; so keep you answers short and to the point without making it appear that you are trying to hide something.

No one is perfect and you will screw up at times; one of the many dating tips for men to never forget is that if you treat her like a person and not a sex object, she will forgive you and you can recover from your mistakes.

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